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Do you!

What better time to refresh my blog than now! It's October my birthday month, The Weekend is dropping a new album, and we are in the midst of the craziest presidential election in history! Lol.  I think we could all use a little bit of uplifting word right now. In the past year I have seen friends battle with Stress, anxiety, anger, and depression including myself! I got sick 3 times in a span of 4 months! That has never happened to me in my life! I knew it was all the changes we were going through. Getting out of the military and transitioning back into the civilian life was another storm I had to walk through. How did I pull through? God! Fear could have gotten the best of us during the time but we just dug deeper into Gods truth. A year later here we are still grateful and still happy! To my dear friends who I have seen go through divorces, heartaches, sickness and all of the other devil schemes that try to come after us. Don't get weary! Don't stop praying! Even now we ...

New beginnings

The beautiful thing about life is that with each new day we get a fresh new start. A new beginning. We don't need to wait for January to start a new resolution or to start doing something new! When the sun rises we get another chance to be better! We all have dreams and desires in our hearts. But many of us are waiting for the right time to pursue the dream or waiting to have a little more money to open up that business. The truth is that there really isn't ever a right time or we won't ever have enough money. The time is today! Right now! Yea it sounds cliché, and all of the negative minds will instantly throw out everything that is holding them back, a sickness, debt, failures, blah blah blah...because that's what a negative mouth sounds like. See we ALL have struggles and we all have set backs, but I believe that if we keep working towards that dream and holding on to hope it will come to pass! Most of us write off our dreams at a young age because that's what th...

People Change

People change. We have all heard this saying, but why does it carry such a negative tone to it.   Throughout our human life we will change and evolve many times...at least most of us will. We will start a new hobby, travel, meet new people, fall in love, get our heartbroken, and start families one day. Some of us will choose to take every experience as an opportunity to grow and learn from our past mistakes. But a lot of us will also choose to hang on to bitterness, anger, hate, and sadness. A wise person always chooses the road to happiness, but a fool gives into negativity. I think we all want to change for the better, but it isn't always that easy. Especially for us who have a past. But with a few easy steps we can all start walking down the road of love and happiness. We all have those "friends" and even family members who love to remind of us who we USED to be. This is probably the hardest part of trying to move forward into a peaceful place. What has worked for me...

Staying Positive in a Negative World.

Facebook inspired me to write today. Ironic since I have a love/hate relationship with it. I never know what kind of day I’m going to have when I wake up. There are days when it starts off hectic and crazy and some mornings are as smooth as a baby’s butt lol. Joking aside though, do you know that staying happy and positive all day is one of the hardest things for a human to do? How do we stay positive in such a negative world? With social media at an all time high it seems like everywhere we turn there is negativity surrounding us. You flip the TV on and hear about all these ridiculous trials, and riots, politics, celebrity scandals. Then two seconds later you can pick up your phone and get on Facebook and you know that Susie from high school is going through a divorce. We have all been guilty of “hey did you see what she/he posted on Facebook?” We all have let our emotions get the best of us when “bob” posted what we think a stupid fucking status and we now think he...

No Worries, stress, fear.

When I became pregnant with my second child after the excitement phase I began to worry.   How would I handle two small children at once? When would I ever finish school? Could I be a working mom with two children? Just a flood of fears came over me.   One of the main things humans do is worry and fear.   They say if you want to really live in peace and in the moment we must let go of all worry and fear. But we all know it’s just not that easy.   Fear can be paralyzing though. Fear can keep you on a merry go round.   Maybe you want to start a new career, but you’re scared that it’s too late to do something new. Maybe your in a relationship that you know in your heart isn’t what you want. But comfort keeps you there. Fear of moving on keeps you there.   Perhaps you want to go back to school or even take a semester off. Those strong voices and thoughts are usually what we must follow and obey. When I began to write in t...

Whats yours?

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I would love to hear about your new goals, resolutions, and dreams. And what is the plan to making them happen! PLEASE SHARE! 

1st day of the new year!

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If today you are looking for a new beginning a fresh start a new life path then I join you on the journey. Yesterday is gone and today is here and if your alive that means you have another chance to reach your dreams and goals. If you lost someone special in your life recently and don’t know how to pick up the pieces just know that you are still here for a purpose. Today you can choose to change your attitude; if you feel bitter, sad, lost, angry, or alone inside then it’s time to start making adjustments to GET HAPPY! Do you know that the hardest thing for a person to do is to stand in front if a mirror and look hard and deep at the person in front of them. Everyday we should take a few seconds to stare at ourselves in the mirror and speak positive words to ourselves. I am favored, I am smart, I am important, I am worthy, I am loved. Try this tomorrow morning after your morning routine and then take a long deep breath and smile at yourself. This can only send positive ...